General
pillow princess
What does pillow princess mean?
Someone, classically a femme, who prefers to lie back and receive pleasure rather than give it. Not an insult so much as a stated preference, though it gets thrown as a playful jab. The 'princess' is doing very little work and very much enjoying herself.
"I'd love a pillow princess if she gave half as much as she takes, but mine just stretches out like a cat."
Origin
Queer slang; widespread in lesbian/wlw circles, the 'lazy in bed but adored for it' archetype. Also rendered 'pillow queen'.
Frequently asked questions
What does pillow princess mean?
A pillow princess is a lover who's all about receiving in bed and not so much about giving back.
How do you use pillow princess in a sentence?
"She's a total pillow princess and happy to admit it."
Is pillow princess offensive?
Not usually — it's a playful label, mostly used within LGBTQ+ and dating contexts, and some people self-identify with it.
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