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slow fade
What does slow fade mean?
A breakup method where someone slowly decreases contact and effort over time instead of having a direct conversation, until the relationship quietly dies.
"He didn't break up with me, he just did the slow fade over three weeks."
Origin
Borrowed from film and audio editing, where a 'fade' gradually dims a scene or sound. Adopted into dating slang in the 2010s for the gradual disappearing act.
Frequently asked questions
What does slow fade mean in dating?
It's ending a relationship by gradually replying less and pulling away over time, rather than directly breaking things off.
Is a slow fade better than ghosting?
Some find it gentler since it gives a hint that interest is dropping, but many find it more confusing because there's no clear ending.
How do you tell if you're being slow faded?
Watch for shrinking replies, fewer plans, and longer gaps between messages, all trending steadily downward with no real reason given.
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