General
topping from the bottom
What does topping from the bottom mean?
The submissive partner trying to run the show — directing, correcting or controlling the Top in ways that cut against the dynamic both people signed up for. Usually meant as a mild dig: you said you'd hand over control, now you're micromanaging. Crucial distinction: this is about overstepping an agreed dynamic, not the same as a Service top arrangement where the Bottom directing is the whole point. The community argues plenty about where communication ends and topping from the bottom begins.
"She kept telling him exactly what to do and how — classic topping from the bottom."
Frequently asked questions
What does topping from the bottom mean?
In BDSM, 'topping from the bottom' is when the Bottom tries to steer or control the scene against the agreed-upon power dynamic.
How do you use topping from the bottom in a sentence?
For example: 'He kept telling me what to do next — total topping from the bottom.'
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