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urge to merge
What does urge to merge mean?
The emotional impulse behind U-Hauling: the tendency of wlw relationships to escalate intensely and quickly, two people fusing their lives at speed. It names the feeling, the rush to entwine everything, where the U-Haul names the result. Used knowingly and often fondly about how fast queer women's relationships can deepen.
"Three weeks in and we'd already merged our calendars and our Spotify. The urge to merge is real."
Frequently asked questions
What does urge to merge mean?
It's the pull in wlw (women-loving-women) relationships to bond fast, deep, and all-consuming.
How do you use urge to merge in a sentence?
"Two dates in and we're already planning a holiday — classic urge to merge."
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