BDE
BDE (noun) means Quiet, unforced confidence: the relaxed self-assurance of someone who does not need attention or approval and is not trying to prove anything. Example: “She walked into the interview late, unbothered, radiating BDE.”
How to Use BDE
Learner’s notesIn plain EnglishBeing calmly confident without showing off.
Internet slang, mildly crude because of what the letters stand for; fine in casual conversation, not in formal writing.
BDE is a compliment about attitude, not appearance, and can describe a woman just as easily as a man.
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Can you complete this real example?
She walked into the interview late, unbothered, radiating _____.
Etymology
An initialism of big dick energy. Despite the phrase, the quality it names is a manner rather than anything anatomical, and it is applied to people of any gender.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What does BDE stand for?
Big dick energy. It describes an air of calm confidence rather than anything physical, and is used about people of any gender.
What is the difference between BDE and arrogance?
BDE is confidence that needs no audience — the person is not competing or seeking validation. Arrogance is loud and comparative, and by definition cancels out BDE.