dom
Dom (noun) means Informal: the dominant partner in a BDSM relationship or sexual dynamic. Example: “They discussed boundaries before deciding who would be the dom.”
How to use dom
Learner’s notesIn plain EnglishEither a BDSM term for the dominant partner, or a formal title used for certain clergy and nobility.
The BDSM sense is informal slang; the honorific sense is formal and mostly historical.
Word forms
- Plural
- doms, dons
- Third person singular
- doms
- Past tense
- dommed
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They discussed boundaries before deciding who would be the _____.
Etymology
Shortened from "dominant" in its slang sense; the honorific sense comes from Latin dominus, "lord" or "master."
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