adjective

DTF

dee-tee-EF

DTF (adjective) means willing to have casual sex, with no expectation of a relationship. Most often stated in dating app profiles and messages. Example: “His bio just said 25, in town for the weekend, DTF.”

adjective

vulgar slang Willing to have casual sex, with no expectation of a relationship. Most often stated in dating app profiles and messages.

"His bio just said 25, in town for the weekend, DTF."

"She made it clear she wasn't DTF and just wanted a drink."

How to Use DTF

Learner’s notes

In plain EnglishUp for casual sex.

When to use it

Blunt and vulgar; used almost entirely on dating apps and in private messages. Written more than spoken.

Memory tip

Down here means willing, as in down to go. DTF states availability, not a compliment about anyone.

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Easily confused with

DTR → FWB

Common pairings

are you DTF DTF tonight not DTF

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Etymology

An initialism of down to fuck.

Origin: English

Synonyms

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Frequently Asked Questions

What does DTF stand for?

Down to fuck, meaning open to casual sex with no strings attached. It is standard shorthand on dating apps.

What is the difference between DTF and DTR?

They are near-opposites. DTF means down to fuck, an offer of casual sex, while DTR means define the relationship, a conversation about becoming a proper couple.

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