abbreviation
DTR
dee-tee-ARR
DTR (abbreviation) means Define the relationship: a conversation in which two people who have been dating agree on what they actually are to each other and whether they are exclusive. Example: “Four months in, we finally had the DTR talk.”
abbreviation
1
informal Define the relationship: a conversation in which two people who have been dating agree on what they actually are to each other and whether they are exclusive.
"Four months in, we finally had the DTR talk."
"He keeps dodging any attempt at a DTR."
verb
1
informal To have that conversation.
"We should probably DTR before you meet my parents."
How to use DTR
Learner’s notesIn plain EnglishIt is the talk where two people agree what they are to each other.
When to use it
Casual, chiefly American, and common in dating writing and among young adults. Most often appears as "the DTR talk" or "the DTR conversation".
Memory tip
Almost always used with the definite article: the DTR, not a DTR.
Common pairings
DTR talk
have the DTR
avoid the DTR
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Frequently asked questions
What is a DTR talk?
It is an explicit conversation about the status of a romantic relationship: whether you are dating, exclusive or just casual. It replaces guessing with an agreed answer.
When should you have the DTR conversation?
There is no fixed rule, but people usually raise it once they are seeing each other regularly and want to know whether to keep other options open. Waiting until resentment builds tends to make the conversation harder, not easier.
What is the meaning of DTR?
"DTR" (abbreviation) means define the relationship: a conversation in which two people who have been dating agree on what they actually are to each other and whether they are exclusive.
What are the different meanings of DTR?
"DTR" has 2 main meanings: 1. Define the relationship: a conversation in which two people who have been dating agree on what they actually are to each other and whether they are exclusive; 2. To have that conversation.
