red flag
Red flag (noun) means a sign that something is wrong or dangerous, especially an early warning about a person's behaviour or about a situation you are considering entering. Example: “He wouldn't let her meet his friends, which should have been a red flag.”
How to use red flag
Learner’s notesIn plain EnglishA warning sign that something is not right.
Neutral; extremely common in dating, HR and finance contexts.
Red flags warn you; red herrings mislead you. They are not related.
Trace the full origin ↓Fill the gap
Can you complete this real example?
He wouldn't let her meet his friends, which should have been a _____.
Etymology
From the literal use of a red flag as a warning or stop signal, red being long established as the colour of danger.