upset
24 synonyms and 6 antonyms for upset, grouped by meaning and by how common each one is.
Adj — Unhappy, distressed, or annoyed.
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Less common
Still standard English, but they carry more weight.
Rare, literary or technical
Precise, but they will stand out — check the sense before using one.
Antonyms
How to use upset
The word patterns that sound natural to a native speaker.
Etymology
From Middle English upsetten, from up- + set.
Full origin of upset →Frequently asked questions
What does “upset” mean?
The word “upset” means unhappy, distressed, or annoyed. In plain terms, to feel or cause distress, or an unexpected result/disruption.
How do you pronounce “upset”?
“Upset” is pronounced uhp-SEHT (/ʌpˈsɛt/ in IPA).
How do you use “upset” in a sentence?
Here is “upset” used in a sentence: “She was upset after losing the match.”
What is another word for “upset”?
Words with a similar meaning to “upset” include in a tizzy, agitate, freak, bother, bring down and discompose.
What is the opposite of “upset”?
The opposite of “upset” — its antonyms — are alleviate, appease, calm, comfort and compose.
What part of speech is “upset”?
Depending on how it is used, “upset” can be an adjective, a noun and a verb.
Where does the word “upset” come from?
The word “upset” comes from Middle English. From Middle English upsetten, from up- + set.
Is “upset” a common word?
“Upset” is a fairly common word in modern English, usually learned at around the A2 level.
What is the difference between upset and angry?
Upset is a broad word covering being unhappy, distressed, or annoyed, and it often carries hurt or sadness rather than pure rage. Angry is specifically about strong displeasure and the urge to lash out. You can be upset and tearful without being angry, or upset in a way that includes some anger.
How strong is the word upset?
Upset is mild to moderate. It signals that someone's emotional balance has been disturbed — they are troubled, distressed, or annoyed — but it stops short of extremes like devastated or furious. Its vagueness is useful: it acknowledges real distress without pinning down whether the person is sad, hurt, worried, or cross.
What is the opposite of upset?
The opposite is a settled, contented state — words like calm, composed, happy, or untroubled. Where upset suggests emotional balance has been knocked off course, these describe someone at ease. The image behind the word is literally being "turned over," so its opposite is being steady and level.