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noun

self-loathing

self-LOH-thing

Self-loathing (noun) means Intense hatred or disgust directed at yourself, going beyond ordinary self-criticism into contempt for who you are. Example: “The diaries record years of self-loathing he hid from everyone.”

noun
1
Intense hatred or disgust directed at yourself, going beyond ordinary self-criticism into contempt for who you are.
"The diaries record years of self-loathing he hid from everyone."
"Relapse was always followed by a wave of self-loathing."
adjective
1
Filled with hatred of yourself, or of a group you belong to.
"He wrote a self-loathing account of his years in the industry."

How to Use Self-loathing

Learner’s notes

In plain EnglishHating yourself.

When to use it

Neutral and clinical enough for psychology writing, and common in memoir and criticism.

Easily confused with
self-criticism shame guilt
Common pairings
consumed by self-loathing spiral of self-loathing self-loathing and shame
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The diaries record years of _____ he hid from everyone.

self-hatred self-disgust self-contempt self-hate self-hating

Antonyms

self-love self-acceptance self-esteem

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is the difference between self-loathing and low self-esteem?

Low self-esteem is a poor opinion of your worth or abilities, and it can be quiet and comparative. Self-loathing is active hostility towards yourself, closer to hatred than to doubt, and it tends to attach to your whole identity rather than your performance.

Is self-loathing a mental illness?

It is not a diagnosis in itself, but it is a recognised feature of depression, eating disorders, complex trauma and addiction. Persistent self-loathing is a reason to seek help, since it rarely lifts on its own.

What is the opposite of self-loathing?

Self-acceptance is the truest opposite, since it means being at peace with yourself as you are. Self-love and self-esteem are near opposites, but they involve positive regard rather than simple absence of hatred.

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